First of all, this is a fresh blog Ima make. Would like to make clear that this blog can be useful for both men and women. Trolling, flaming, hating or even spamming will not make me stop from what I'm doing. Yea, follow me on Twitter and it'll be my utmost pleasure to follow you back!
Alright this post is to help Men attract girls in...a few steps. I'll try to do a good job as people always say "The first impression is usually the last impression." I need a good number of readers and please please please comment on how my posts are so i can improve on it! Oh, and tell your friends about this blog, guys and girls too!
Some of you may be thinking that i'm trying to get as much readers as i can so i can earn money through Nuffnang or google advertisements. Nope, i'm not one of them, this blog is purely to help people in distress...or so. I don't earn money at all and i don't plan to by Blogging.
So, what is the true secret to attracting girls? Why is it that some guys get all the attention from girls as and when they please, while others keep struggling to even initiate a conversation with girls?
Guys, please don't ever try to hit on girls via Instant Messenger(IM) or Facebook etc. Cos sometimes when i browse through my Facebook homepage, seeing a few pretty girls or so, there are always some guys trying to hit on the women, a big no-no.
Anyway, lets continue, now you might be thinking that these guys are naturally gifted with the power to attract girls but the fact is the exact OPPOSITE!!!!! No guy is ever born this way to know girls right on the spot! Rather, those guys know what works with girls and what does not.
Alright, cut the chase, let us go straight to the points.
Communication!!! Guys around me i know are usually shy and this is one of the most overlooked skill when it comes to attracting girls and getting some positive results!!!
Communication lays the basic and strong foundation of attracting girls and you simply can not attract girls unless you become a very good communicator. Each and every of your personality is represented by the way you talk and present yourself.
Girls tend to evaluate guys based on the very first few minutes of conversation with them. Probably around..5 minutes? This is normally the time frame when they make a mental judgment on the person they are talking to. Probably why i know such things is because i hang out with intelligent women. Therefore learn to develop and master your communication skills in order to really attract girls.
Go practice in front of the mirror like how teachers taught you to practice your oral in primary school.
The second step, which i think is the value everyone must know in life.
Respect yourself! Always respect everyone or everything around you. Girls are normally attracted to men who respect themselves and know their true self worth. Remember the more value a guy add to himself, the more attractive he would become to girls.
Third point,
Never chase them, oh well, this can be debatable since it's a personal preference kinda thing. But most of my female friends don't want a man who chases them everywhere when i asked them this question. Rather they would become highly attracted towards a guy if he have girls chasing him. How can i not agree with this phrase, "A key that opens many locks, is a master key.......But if a lock is opened by lots of keys, then it's a bad lock."
Same thing for guys, If you are already being chased by other girls than you automatically become a rare commodity and girls are always in the lookout for men who are wanted by other girls!
Alight, these are the few steps that will help you men, nopre it's not the end yet! But i know some of you peeps have a low attention span, why not take a break? Check this blog later on or keep spamming F5 to see if i continued blogging.
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